Appearances

On the verge of my late twenties, the issue of a life-partner of mine was booming. Good intentions of a friend and a relative brought me to know several guys. It made me questioning myself.

"Am I that desperate to get a life-partner?"
"Am I being picky?"
"Do I judge him by his appearances?"

Ever since my teen-age, I've told my friends, and these sudden match-maker that appearances are not my priority. They means: face, height, weight, and his clothing-style (neat). Education mattered, though. As well as job. Then I realized that those two are also appearances.

One man, however, made me asking those questions to myself. I was so afraid of judging him by his appearances, and it made me realize another thing. I've never paid attention to my appearance (the way I clothe myself). As long as I'm comfortable, I could go shopping to the mall with an old pants which is out of date, and its color had faded away plus a T-shirt.

When one of my best friends advised me to reduce my weight coz there are some men who don't like a plump girl. I thought it was unfair. But then i knew that I was being unfair, too. I liked a well-dressed man. Was it wrong? No, I was just being realistic. So, are those men wrong? They aren't, I might say.

So, somebody out there!!! Please help me to make over my clothing style with some chic clothes which match my character and personality. Raise your hands, please... ;)